matthew from 1 kings 12

In 1889, the French novelist Paul Bourget penned The Disciple , where he depicted the life of a renowned philosopher and psychologist, whose existence was marked by a seemingly monotonous routine...

A wise man seeks much counsel ... a fool listens to all of it.

We may have more disagreements with nonbelievers, but our disagreements with fellow believers are more problematic and more emotionally charged.