Know God, No Sex?

Despite what now appears to me to be the overwhelmingly obvious connections between spirituality and sexuality, when I first came to faith and went to church, I had the sneaking suspicion that God had nothing to do with sex—well, apart from the fact that he didn’t want single people doing it. 

Sex was clearly only for married people. Church seemed so sexless to me that I wasn’t even convinced married people were doing it, except that they kept having kids! By that point in my life, talking about sex, having sex, even…